I had a sincere request to remove my last post because of it's nature. I don't regret what I said because someone needed to put it out there and I'm glad I used a public forum because it had an effect on my sister unlike telling her the same thing in private. Perhaps now she will use these new feelings she has to push herself in the right direction.
I'm still amazingly upset about it all and find myself waking up in a cold sweat at night straining to hear anything in the silence. I hope I will be able to sleep soundly soon.
May my sister never forget what has happened.